� One Kenyan Lady has narrated her sorrowful experience with a sponsor whom she was hooked to and her story is so touching.
-The lady narrates how her old man sponsor impregnated her and infected her with HIV.
-The sponsor also took everything,abandoned her and left her broke.She now advises ladies who are looking for sponsors to be careful not to ruin their lives.
One Kenyan Lady has confessed her bitter experience with a sponsor on Facebook after she was infected,impregnated and dumped left with nothing.
For those who don't know what the word 'sponsor' mean,this is a rich old man who is dating young girls for his own pleasures in exchange for Money and other gifts.
Immediately the young lady posted what she had gone through,her message was shared several times with so many people across all over the Facebook her message being clearly on point.
Here is her statement:
�After classes on a Friday me and my friends used to go to a popular joint in Westlands,One Friday, 4 older gentlemen came over to our table and offered us drinks, we agreed to join them as usual,most ladies don't deny drinks when offered in a club after all we went there to have fun.Over 2 months it was play and fun, they would invite us to Different expensive hotels and we could have fun.They could give us good money as upkeep after having fun which I now know it was prostitution,� began the lady.The lady explains how one of the men became so close to her and started supporting her financially comparing himself to be like a father to her.
�The guy I landed was rich of course and he gave me pocket money amounting to 20k a week, unlike my dad who gave me 4k a month.I could get all the shoes and clothes I had dreamed of wearing . I was lucky enough to move from the hostels near Chiromo to a one bedroom in parklands,� continued the lady.After her life started changing,she moved class and neglected her campus boyfriend since he was no longer now on her level.Her campus boyfriend used to offer her cheap gifts.Thank God for that boyfriend since it helped him from this distress.
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�After 9 months of Living like a queen, the guy changed he would only see me on weekends or send his driver to pick me up; his driver was a kind guy and through him I learned the hard truth that my new man was married and had a daughter my age, apparently I was not the only girl the driver would pick up,� said the lady.
She never thought this could happen to her,the driver who picked her also picked several other ladies and she was not the only one.
�I was angry at first but due to other gifts which he had promised me including a 42'inch Samsung was delivered to my place the following Monday with an apology from my hubby as I had grown to know him, to say I was stupid and blind would be an understatement,� continued the lady.
The lady narrates how she started feeling sick every now and again with small illness.She went ahead and told his hubby who as by then was known to be.He gave me a good amount of money whereby i visited Nairobi hospital for further check up.This is when she received the sad news about her pregnancy and her HIV+ Status.
�After breaking the news to the guy he took off and said I had been seeing someone else, the following day 8 guys showed up at my house with a moving truck, at this point, you realize there is no dif between you and a visitor. Out went my beautiful TV, sofa, Queen size bed, my tables and carpets were all loaded into a truck and taken away,� said the lady.READ ALSO:See Nigeria�s Hairiest Woman,Queen Okafor (PHOTOS).
She then goes ahead to narrate how she was left with a few clothes, broke, ashamed with an unplanned pregnancy and a disease on top.
�With the 3k I had I went back home and my mother knew immediately I was with child, my father hasn�t spoken to me since then, it�s been 2 years now, I�m still HIV positive, my son is still here and for the 1 year I enjoyed life with a married man, I lost school time, I lost a boyfriend who now is working and another woman is enjoying what was to be mine,� said the lady.The lady is now advising all those women with intentions or who are looking for sponsors or even have sponsors that,there is no man who will approach a lady who is HIV positive and a has a child, no matter no matter what.
�Most of my friends are gone, some are really sick with HIV, family members use me as a negative example, my cousins don�t talk to me. Women work hard, get a man you can lift, be thankful for what you have, don�t be greedy stick to the 200 Bob credit and watch it grow to 1000 and more,� concluded the lady.
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