Ahahahah.... i could have said that was the solution but am sorry it isn't. We all know 'prayer without action is nothing'.
2. Give verbal and written words of encouragement:
�You handled that wisely.� " I love being married to you.� make them fill appreciated in any little way.
3. Express confidence.
Make sure you notice your partner's perfect side and work on showing it by building it together. For example, "my Luv am sure you know these and i want you to teach me because my friends needs us in their project".
4. Be loyal. Loyalty builds confidence.
When you are loyal, you will end up creating trust between you. Always be ready to support when need be. Make your partner feel your presence and commitment.
5. Compliment the little things he does � in front of others and privately.
Somebody can easily forget what you told her/him but will never forget how you made him/her feel. A compliment will usher a nice feeling, more especially if it comes from a person one truly cares for.
6. Make his favorite meals/ buy her the food which you know she enjoy cooking.
This is a secret for men: if your wife/ girl loves you she'll always want to know your favorite meal and try her best to learn how to cook it to perfection. For her to cook it the way you want, its you to teach her then make that food available for her to practice thus become perfect hence raise her self esteem.
7. Be an available and active lover.
We all know ladies need attention, what we don't know is men too need it. Never give you partner a reason to doubt your love or his/her self worthiness.
8. Remind him/her of his/her personal strengths and accomplishments.
Well all feel appreciated and cared for once our partners notice our strengths and accomplishment because we tend to think that they have created time out of their busy schedule to learn as more, which is true.
9. Respect and admire him/her .
Respect is the key to any happy relationship. If you respect each other's decisions there will never be misunderstandings. Respect will grow to confidence which in turn will bust each other's self esteem.
10. Take responsibilities seriously and carry them out.
Be accountable to any mistake you commit. Never let your partner carry your cross, he/she might feel less important thus have low self esteem.
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